BRANDI
CARLILE GETS MARRIED
Lesbian Singer/Songwriter Marries Girlfriend
September 2012
Gay singer/songwriter
Brandi Carlile and
her longtime girlfriend Catherine Shepherd
were married on September 15 in a ceremony that was legally
recognized. In awe that her dream of a legitimate wedding is
actually happening, the singer hopes to set an example for other gay
girls.

"It was a crazy feeling
while I was filling out the paperwork because I felt like I was
breaking a law, like somebody was going to come in and say, 'You
know you can't have this!' It was so exciting... we have a marriage
license in Massachusetts," Brandi Carlile said.
Brandi and Catherine got
married first in Boston and later threw a party in Brandi's hometown
of Seattle. They also plan to celebrate in Catherine's
hometown of London next year!
"It was truly one of our best days, completely awkward and human and
beautiful," Brandi said. "I'm married to my best friend and nothing
has ever brought me more joy than that."
Giving thanks for those
who have worked so hard to make gay marriage a reality, at least in
some states, Brandi Carlile said, "It's so surprising, and so hard
fought... I wouldn't have been able to picture myself married or
successful or pursuing my dreams if there hadn't been other people
that had done it before me, like role models, and that's why talking
about it is so important."
LINKS:
She Knows Entertainment: Brandi Carlile Marries Girlfriend
She Wired: Check Out Brandi's Wedding Photo
Huff Post: Brandi Hopes to Inspire with Same Sex Wedding
CBS News: Brandi Taking a Stand by Getting Married
Associated Press: Brandi Carlile's Special Day
MARRIAGE EQUALITY MUSIC VIDEO
Modern Love by Matt
Nathanson
August 2012
The San Francisco folk rocker, Matt
Nathanson, comes out with Modern Love to promote marriage
equality. Matt Nathanson, the folk rock singer-songwriter who went
platinum with his song "Come On Get Higher" is back with "Modern Love,"
a new video supporting marriage equality that has already had nearly
200,000 views in just a week. "People deserve to be free to love who
they choose, without prejudice," says Nathanson, who toured with Kelly
Clarkson earlier this year. "The right to marry is an extension of this
love. Until the time comes when this is no longer an issue in our
culture, modern love will never be enough."
LINKS:
Matt Nathanson
Marriage Equality Video: Modern Love
Matt Nathanson
Website
MARRY ME
Gay Marriage Music Videos
LINKS:
Same
Love: Music for Marriage Equality
Rapper
MacklemoreTalks About Gay Marriage
Interview with Rapper Macklemore on Gay Marriage
Marriage Equality Song
Marry Me, Girl
Marry Me Boy
My
Beloved Wife
I Have a Right
CHELY WRIGHT
Lesbian Country Music Singer
August 2011
Chely Wright is an
American
country music artist and
gay rights activist and is
the first country music star to come out
as openly gay.
On
the strength of her debut album in 1994, the
Academy of Country Music
(ACM) named her Top New Female Vocalist in 1995. Wright's
first Top 40 country hit came in 1997 with "Shut
Up and Drive". Two years later, her fourth album
yielded her first number one single, the title track, "Single
White Female". Overall, Wright has released seven
studio albums on various labels, and has charted more than
fifteen singles on the country charts. As of May 2010,
Wright's previous eight albums had sold over 1,000,000
copies in the United States.

In
May 2010, Wright became the first major country music
performer to publicly
come out as
gay. In television appearances and an autobiography, she
cited among her reasons for publicizing her homosexuality a
concern with bullying and hate crimes toward gays,
particularly gay teenagers, and the damage to her life
caused by "lying and hiding".
As
a songwriter she has written songs that have been recorded
by
Brad Paisley,
Richard Marx,
Indigo Girls,
Mindy Smith
and
Clay Walker,
among them Walker's top ten hit, "I Can't Sleep" that won
her a BMI award. On May 4, 2010, Wright released both her
memoir of being a closeted lesbian, Like Me, and her
first album of new songs since 2005, Lifted Off the
Ground.
In
2010, Chely Wright
published a book entitled,
Like Me: Confessions of a Heartland Country Singer,
in which she candidly discusses being a lesbian.
On
August 20, 2011, Chely Wright married her partner Lauren
Blitzer in a private ceremony on a country estate in
Connecticut. Wright and Blitzer were married by both a rabbi
and a reverend.
A
documentary film, entitled Wish Me Away, about
Wright's extended coming out, was released in 2011.
LINKS:
People: Chely Wright is Married
CBS News: Rejected by Nashville
QUEEREST SONGS
LGBT Songs of the Year
December 2011
According to Noah Michaelson of the Huffington Post, here are the
queerest songs of 2011:
Jessie J - Price Tag
Patrick Wolf - The City
Lady Gaga - Born This Way
The Young Professionals - D.I.S.C.O
Austra - Lose It
REM - Oh My Heart
RuPaul - Glamazon
Garçon Garçon - Stay In Touch
Beth Ditto - I Wrote The Book
Hercules & Love Affair - My House
Ssion - Psy-Chic
Cazwell And Peaches - Unzip Me
Jessica 6 - White Horse
Adam Lambert - Outlaws Of Love
Melissa Ferrick - Still Right Here
Will Young - Jealousy
Ricky Martin - The Best Thing About Me Is You
Vanessa Carlton - Carousel
Woodpigeon - For Paolo
Holcombe Waller - Hardliners
Bright Light Bright Light - Disco Moment
OUT MUSIC AWARDS
Honoring Cyndi Lauper, Melissa
Etheridge, Chely Wright
November 20, 2010
Cyndi Lauper, Melissa Etheridge and Chely
Wright were among the artists honored during the 20th annual LGBT
Academy of Recording Arts' (LARA) 2010 OUTMUSIC Awards.
The annual show
is held each year in the heart of Times Square at Town Hall NYC on December
1, also World AIDS Day.

Singer and gay ally Cyndi Lauper received
the OUTMUSIC Icon Award, openly lesbian rocker Etheridge received
the Lifetime Achievement Award, and country music star Wright,
who came out gay in 2010,
will be honored with the Vanguard Award, which will be presented by
country singer-actress Dolly Parton via video.
The event was hosted by comedians
Julie Goldman and Jonny McGovern (the Gay Pimp), stars of Logo's The
Big Gay Sketch Show. Comedian Tammy Peay, known as Ms Peay, co-hosted the event. And Broadway legend Carol Channing and musical great
Melba Moore put in special appearances.
The OUTMUSIC Awards celebrates, honors and
documents the contributions of openly gay recording artists and
performers.
LINKS:
On Top: Out Music Awards to Honor Lauper, Etheridge, Wright
Out Music: Alliance of LGBT Recording
Artists & Performers
Out Music Awards

Kelly Clarkson / People Like Us
Kelly Clarkson / What Doesn’t Kill You
Makes You Stronger
Lady Gaga / Born This Way
One Direction / That’s What Makes You
Beautiful
Katy Perry / Firework
Taylor Swift / You Belong With Me
Taylor Swift / Sparks Fly
Mika / Make You Happy
TRIBUTE TO FREDDIE MERCURY
Concert by Queen & Friends
LINKS:
Tribute to Freddie Mercury: Robert Plant & Queen
Tribute
to Freddie Mercury: Lisa Stanfield & Queen
Tribute to Freddie Mercury: Davie Bowie, Annie Lennox & Queen
Tribute to Freddie Mercury: Elton John, Axl Rose & Queen
Tribute to Freddie Mercury: Roger Daltry & Queen
Tribute to Freddie Mercury: Paul Young & Queen
Tribute to Freddie Mercury: George Michael & Queen
Tribute to Freddie
Mercury: Liza Minelli & Queen
Tribute to Freddie Mercury: George Michael, Lisa Stanfield & Queen
Tribute to Freddie Mercury: Elton John & Queen

DANCE SONGS
Essential Dance Songs to Celebrate Gay Pride
Perhaps no other popular art form is more closely identified with gay
culture than disco and dance music. Gay men in particular adopted the
intense, loud, throbbing 4/4 beat of dance music that predominated at
the bars and discos that were among the few places where they could
openly express their sexual identities. As the musical backdrop for
generations of gay men who came of age and discovered an entirely new
gay world in such venues, dance music became inextricably connected with
the gay experience. Here is a sampling of the most popular dance
and disco songs associated with gay pride.
Sister Sledge - We Are Family
MFSB - Love is the Message
Ultra Nate - Free
Village People - YMCA
Book of Love - Pretty Boys and Pretty Girls
Carl Bean - I Was Born this Way
KC & the Sunshine Band -
That's the Way I Like It
Gloria Gaynor - I Am What I Am
Bronski Beat - Smalltown Boy
Donna Summer - Hot Stuff
Sylvester - (You Make Me Feel) Mighty Real
Johnna - Pride
Village People - Macho Man
Book of Love - Boy Pop
Pointer Sisters - I'm So Excited
C&C Music Factory - Pride (A Deeper Love)
Weather Girls - It's
Raining Men
Diana Ross - I'm Coming Out
George Michael - Freedom '90
Donna Summer - Last Dance
Barry Harris / Pepper Mashay - I Got My Pride
Village People - Go West
Abba - Dancing Queen
Tom Robinson Band - Glad to Be Gay
Gloria Gaynor - I Will Survive
LINKS:
GLBTQ Encyclopedia: Disco
& Dance Music
Gay Info: Gay Classic
Top 100
We are a gentle angry people,
and we are singing, singing for our lives.
We are a justice seeking people,
and we are singing, singing for our lives.
We are young and old together,
and we are singing, singing for our lives.
We are a land of many colors,
and we are singing, singing for our lives.
We are gay and straight together,
And we are singing, singing for our lives.
We are a gentle, loving people,
And we are singing, singing for our lives.
I Want to be Free to be Me
By Lucie Blue Tremblay
So many people in the world, alone in their own way,
tired of hiding, silence is dying.
I want you to know who I really am,
I want to be free to be me with you,
and if you love me as much as I love you,
then you`ll love me even if I`m not like you.
So many people are so afraid, there`s so much to understand,
so I take a chance now,
it`s important to me that I tell you, so please sit down.
I`m not saying we should agree on everything,
`cause we all live our own lives.
I want you to know who I really am,
I want to be free to be me with you,
And if you love me as much as I love you,
then you`ll love me, even if I`m not like you.
I am What I am
From La Cage Aux Folles
I am what I am, I don`t need praise,
I don`t need pity, I bang my own drum,
Some call it noise, I call it pretty.
And so what if I love each bauble and each bangle,
Why not try to see things from a different angle?
Your life is a sham 'till you can shout out, "I am what I am!"
I am what I am, and what I am needs no excuses.
I deal my own deck, sometimes the ace, sometimes the deuces.
And there's no return and no deposit, so it's time to open up your closet!
Life's not worth a damn, 'till you can say, "Hey, world, "I am what I am!"
Glad To Be Gay
By Tom Robinson
The British Police are the
best in the world, I don't believe one of these stories I've heard,
'Bout them raiding our pubs for no reason at all, Lining the customers
up by the wall,
Picking out people and knocking them down, Resisting arrest as they're
kicked on the ground,
Searching their houses and
calling them queer, I don't believe that sort of thing happens here.
Sing if you're glad to be
gay, Sing if you're happy that way.
Pictures of naked young
women are fun, In Titbits and Playboy, page three of The Sun,
There's no nudes in Gay News our last magazine, But they still find
excuses to call it obscene,
Read how disgusting we are
in the press, The News of The World and the Sunday Express,
Molesters of children, corruptors of youth, It's there in the paper, it
must be the truth.
Sing if you're glad to be
gay, Sing if you're happy that way.
Don't try to kid us that
if you're discreet, You're perfectly safe as you walk down the street,
You don't have to mince or make bitchy remarks, To get beaten
unconscious and left in the dark ,
I had a friend who was gentle and short, Got lonely one evening and went
for a walk ,
Queerbashers caught him and kicked in his teeth, He was only
hospitalised for a week .
Sing if you're glad to be
gay, Sing if you're happy that way.
So sit back and watch as
they close all our clubs, Arrest us for meeting and raid all our pubs,
Make sure your boyfriend's at least 21, So only your friends and your
brothers get done,
Lie to your workmates, lie to your folks, Put down the queens and tell
anti-queer jokes,
Gay Lib's ridiculous, join their laughter, 'The buggers are legal now,
what more are they after?'
Sing if you're glad to be
gay, Sing if you're happy that way.
Glory Glory: Gay & Lesbian Song
By
Anonymous
Mine eyes have seen the glory of the coming of the queers
Homophobes have trampled on our rights, They`ve done so out of fear
We have loosed our rising anger and now it`s plainly clear
That gays are marching on
Glory, glory I`m a lesbian
Glory, glory I`m a gay man
Glory, glory I`m a homosexual
I am truth marching on
In our homes and on street corners we have been condemned to die
We were murdered in the Holocaust by Hitler and his lies
AIDS is killing all our people whom the government denies
But gays are marching on
In the beauty of our loving we have let ourselves be free
We will heal our wounds through justice for all humanity
We will deny not our freedom or our sexuality
We will keep marching on
Innocence Maintained (Excerpt)
By Jewel
We've made houses for hatred. It's time we made a place where people's
souls may be seen and made safe.
Be careful with each other. These fragile flames.
For innocence can't be lost. It just needs to be maintained.
I want to live bravely and love without fear.
I want always to feel the wings of grace near.
We Shall Be Free
By Garth Brooks
When the last child cries for a crust of bread,
When the last man dies just for words that he's said,
When there's shelter over the poorest head,
Then we shall be free
When we're free to love anyone we choose,
When this world's big enough for all different views,
When we all can worship from our own kind of pews,
Then we shall be free
When the last thing we see is the color of skin,
And the first thing we look for is the beauty within,
When the skies above are clear again,
Then we shall be free
When money talks for the very last time,
And nobody walks a step behind,
When there's only one race and that's mankind,
Then we shall be free
American Triangle
Dedicated to Matthew Shepherd
By Elton John & Bernie Taupin
Seen him playing in his backyard, Young boy just starting out,
So much history in this landscape, So much confusion, so much doubt.
Been there drinking on
that front porch, Angry kids, mean and dumb,
Looks like a painting, that blue skyline, God hates fags where we come
from.
'Western skies' don't make
it right, 'Home of the brave' don't make no sense,
I've seen a scarecrow wrapped in wire, Left to die on a high ridge
fence.
It's a cold, cold wind, It's a cold, cold wind, It's a cold wind
blowing, Wyoming.
See two coyotes run down a
deer, Hate what we don't understand,
You pioneers give us your children, But it's your blood that stains
their hands.
Somewhere that road forks
up ahead, To ignorance and innocence,
Three lives drift on different winds, Two lives ruined, one life spent.
Talking to My
Angel
By Melissa Etheridge
Don't be afraid, Close your eyes, Lay it all down, Don't you cry
Can't you see I'm going where I can see the sun rise
I've been talking to my angel, And he said that it's alright
I've always had to run, I don't know just why,
Desire slowly smoking,
Under the midwest sky
There's something waiting out there that says I've got to try
I've been talking to my angel, And he said that it's alright
This town thinks I'm crazy, They just think I'm strange
Sometimes they want to own me, Sometimes they wish I'd change
But I can feel the thunder underneath my feet
I sold my soul for freedom, It's lonely but it's sweet
Don't be afraid, Close your eyes, Lay it all down, Don't you cry
Can't you see I'm going where I can see the sun rise
I've been talking to my angel, And he said that it's alright
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